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ASK FREYA

Sometimes you need another pair of eyes on the story you're living.

A place to put the question

Tell me what's happening.

Relationships are complicated. Sometimes we're too close to a situation to see all of it clearly.

Tell me what's happening, what you're wondering about, and anything you think I should understand. I'll help you look for the needs, assumptions, boundaries, choices, and possibilities that might be hiding inside the story.

I won't decide for you what you should do. But I'll sit with the question with you.

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I'll read it carefully.

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Is there a particular question underneath the story? It's okay if you don't know yet.

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A note before you send

Ask Freya offers thoughtful perspective, not professional mental health, medical, legal, financial, or crisis services. Please don't include information you aren't comfortable sharing. If you or someone else may be in immediate danger, contact appropriate emergency or crisis support where you live.

Ask Freya responses may be prepared with assistance from the human author and creative team behind Freya. See Is Freya real? for more about how Freya works.